Mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship is a tricky one. Even if you know your mother-in-law for a long period of time your relationship with your mother-in-law needs to be handled carefully. However, to make it easy for you, these are things you should say to your mother-in-law.
I love your son. It is obvious I married him because I love him, but i share a very different relationship with him than he does with you.
Please respect that.
I am not here to take your place. Sure there is another woman in his life now but that does not mean his love for you has taken a backseat. He still loves you and nothing will change that fact that you were and always will be the first woman in his life.
I respect you. I appreciate all you’ve done to raise your child who is now my husband. I may not be as close to as I am with my own mother but that doesn’t mean I don’t respect you. You hold a special place in my life.
I want your guidance. Yes I need my space too, but that does not mean that I don’t need you in my life at all. There are times when I will be stuck whether in the kitchen or my parenting and i might need a little guidance, I want you to be there when I need you the most.
We might not agree on everything. Yes we will have our disagreement, but I want you to know i want them resolved as much as you do.
I am not perfect. I want you to accept that I may not be such a good cook and may not know how to run errands. but my imperfections shaped me into who I am today. If your son comes with his set of flaws, so do I.
Trust me. I know it’s difficult accepting a stranger in your life suddenly. But trust us that we want to make this work as much as you do. It is all the more difficult for us, since while you have just one person to accept, we on the other hand have an entire family to take care of.
Our parenting style will be different. You might have brought up your children in a particular way. But that does not mean that I will follow the same. Sure, your advice is welcome but give us the chance to learn ourselves even if the hard way.
My parents will always be important to us. We might not see them everyday, but that does not mean their importance to me has lessened over the years. We love and will always love and respect them as much as we do you.
I am your family too. Your daughter will always be your daughter but it will be nice to make the effort to treat me like family member too. Whenever I take one step forward i expect you to take one yourself.
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